Goodbye!


Hiya!

I’m going to be leaving the Pixie Blogging Community!

This means all my stories will go unfinished, any posts or updates I have queued up will not be published, and all my series are officially cancelled.

I just realized that the Pixie Hollow fandom in its entirety was an ever-expanding sinkhole I kept pouring my time and energy into, and that I wasn’t happy here, and hadn’t been happy for a long time!

Bye!

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28 thoughts on “Goodbye!

  1. …Bye, Raven… 😦
    This announcement (and Dalila’s) was so abrupt and very upsetting to me… 😥
    I’m sorry that you feel that way about PH in general and that you weren’t happy in the PBC…It was obvious that you were one of most active pixie bloggers here, so I can understand your frustration for putting in so many hours for so little reward…I really did enjoy your blog, stories, and all your series. Your presence will be greatly missed.
    Just curious – Are you still going to stay active in FairyABC?
    Best of luck to you, Raven, and thank you so much for all your hard work ❤

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  2. I’m sorry to hear this decision from both you and Dalila. Thank you for all the great posts and all the great times together. You were a great friend, even if we didn’t end up being friends in the end. I give you the best wishes for the future.

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  3. I am quite sad that you are leaving, you were very active.. I do hope you visit Fairyabc from time to time, you have been a wonderful, kind, and caring friend. I wish you good luck on your journey outside of Fairyabc and this blog.

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  4. Raven – I just saw this update on your FairyABC page:
    “In the immortal words of Geoffrey Chaucer, all good things must come to an end. So, my time on FairyABC comes to an upsetting end. Earlier today, there was an incident that made me realize that I was no longer happy here on FairyABC. I came to the harsh realization that the energy I poured into this website was being wasted and could be better spent somewhere else. So, goodbye.”
    This explaination makes SOOO much more sense to me now as to why you decided to leave so abruptly! Could you please tell me what happened on FairyABC? I would like to know how what happened there affected your decision to also leave the PBC and your blog…I’m not begging you to stay with us if you truly aren’t happy here and want to leave forever…I just want to help as a friend and community member if there’s even a glimmer of hope left…
    Please email me if you would rather not respond here.

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    1. I agree with Marigold. Raven, the abruptness of your goodbye and the upbeat tone of it does not take into consideration the feelings of all of the pixies in the PBC who have supported you, cherished you, and encouraged you on. Though we have not spoken in a long time, I do still check your blog and I too was surprised by the tone of your post. I think your closest pixie friends deserve a little more gentleness and consideration.

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  5. This is all for attention. Faye “quit” for publicity and came back a minute later. I’m sure you’re doing the same. Your accounts are still up, everything is still here. I was hoping that you’d live your life and stop worrying about Pixie Hollow, for your own good. I don’t mean to be so abruptly rude but that’s truly how I feel.

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    1. Hi, A! I’m sure I’ve never met you before, but I’m Faye, the one you claims did things for publicity. Need I remind you that FABC is not a celebrity site so there is no way I could’ve benefitted from quitting. The fact that you felt the need to randomly attack me on a blog is very upsetting considering I’ve never done the same. I’ve seen people post negatively about me on different blogs and I’ve been kind enough not to comment, but the next person who attacks me ANYWHERE is going to have a nice long chat with the police. I’m sick of being cyber bullied by petty people obsessed with popularity. If you must know, I quit as an act of solidarity for my friend and because I was extremely upset with a certain situation that was happening on FABC. Because I’m mature enough to listen to people and give several chances, on a separate site, I had a dignified and respectable conversation with the parties involved and we cleared things up. We didn’t attack each other. We simply talked like normal people who had a disagreement. If there is a problem with me coming back so abruptly, I’m sorry I can’t hold a grudge and decided to come back for the people who messaged me everyday and made me smile. The fact that you felt the need to not only attack me, but to attack Raven on her blog without even a single word in this post provoking any sort of argument, really speaks tons for the things you do on your free time. Continue your education. Mature more. Look at yourself in the mirror. Then and only then can you attack me because meanwhile you sit here and contemplate ways to bully me, I grow as a person. Maybe when you stop being so petty will I give you the right to judge me. I don’t go after people. I don’t post about people. Get to know me a bit first. Get your hands off the keyboard and think before you speak.

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      1. Also, this isn’t Pretty Little Liars, posting as “A” doesn’t make you mysterious, it makes you a coward. If you have the courage to attack people, you should also have the courage to identity yourself. But again, petty people feel entitled to do things without consequence. Also, I’m glad your keeping tabs on my life though and that you consider me to be such a celebrity. Though, I do find it funny that you’re posting about growing out of Pixie Hollow when you yourself are stalking a blog about it.

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        1. I didn’t even put thought into my name, A is the first letter that came to mind. Threatening to call the police isn’t cute, it’s serious and could get you in trouble. I never considered you a celebrity and the fact that you’re so narcissistic that you think you are on a baby website is outright childish. By publicity I meant that you quit so that people would pay attention to you. Stop being so threatened by everything, because you aren’t actually threatened. You’re acting like it for attention. And you’re entertained by the “cyberbullying.”

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          1. This is comedy gold. Calling me narcissistic and telling me that I’m obsessed with popularity when you yourself posted about how you “could have been the most popular girl on FABC.” I can feel the hypocrisy rolling off in waves. I’ve never needed attention, unlike you. I feel happiest when I’m helping others, not when I’m plotting away at some physchopathic revenge scheme unlike some people I know. And if you couldn’t detect the sarcasm in my previous post, I genuinely implore you to reconsider learning how to read. And about the “A” thing, paying anonymously still makes you a coward, hun. Of course, you think it’s cute that I’ll be calling the police but it won’t be so funny when they’re tracing the IPs of everyone in your clique for constantly harassing and bullying me. Contrary to you, I have screenshots and context of the times I’ve been called a bitch or a jerk without me insulting back. If that doesn’t classify as cyber bullying (or the fact that you’ve gotten your friends to stalk me and message me privately), then I can lend you a dictionary.

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            1. Also, just because you get a thrill off the drama, doesn’t mean I do. If I was actually so thrilled by this, I would’ve replied to your blog posts way sooner. You need to stop. This is a warning, target me one more time, and you’ll be plotting your next grand plot of vengeance from behind bars. Thanks to your blog, I also have screenshots of threatened hacks so yeah. Back off.

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              1. But saying that you aren’t entertained by the drama and saying that it’s “comedy gold” is extremely hypocritical of you. Especially when you’re calling me a hypocrite. Come back later when you can think of a better reply.

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                1. I’m merely laughing at your reply because of how devoid of logic it was. I’m not enjoying needing to have this conversation since I have let so much slide in the past, but it’s really funny how you attempt to defend how petty you are.

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            2. Other people might’ve been rude to you, but I never intended to cyberbully anyone. I was simply calling you out. It is sad that you try to censor people for having differing opinions.

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              1. So what you’re implying is that I should sit back and stay quiet yet again? Why did you even feel the need to talk about me? You have the audacity to attack me and then have the nerve to get offended and act like you never meant any harm. How laughable.

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    2. You still haven’t answered my question as to why you’re so bitter and petty that you attacked me in the first place. Haven’t talked to you in months and I’ve never made a public post about you. I even tried to give you a second chance months back, but you were so consumed by hate you continued bullying multiple players on the site. Even to go as far as to break into the Pixie Chat three more times and childishly remove even the people who weren’t involved. Your issue was with a single member of the chat, but you betrayed every single person there even when they were all kind to you. You always justify the first time you stole the chat by blaming it on your friends (way to throw them under the bus). But can you justify the other three times by hiding behind your friends? Coward. You made even the nicest of people turn on their friends.

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  6. But I’m genuinely wondering why you felt the need to involve me after several months of us neither attacking nor speaking to each other. Someone still seems bitter I blocked them.

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  7. Hello Raven,
    As a member of the PBC, I can’t let you go without saying goodbye. I wish you all the best. It is truly unfortunate that you have not had a good experience as of late. I remember you were one of the very first pixies to welcome me to the PBC. I don’t even know how you found my blog as quickly as you did. But your friendship was a blessing. Since I can’t post a picture in my reply, I’ll have to leave you with just the quote: “Keep your chin up, darling, your tiara is falling.” 👑 😉 [Just wanted to try to make you smile].

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